{"id":9313,"date":"2021-05-20T15:01:08","date_gmt":"2021-05-20T22:01:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindfulstate.com\/?p=9313"},"modified":"2021-12-03T20:17:07","modified_gmt":"2021-12-04T04:17:07","slug":"as-adults-were-hesitant-to-do-that-were-afraid-of-what-might-happen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brianselfdesign.com\/amindfulstate\/as-adults-were-hesitant-to-do-that-were-afraid-of-what-might-happen","title":{"rendered":"As adults we\u2019re hesitant to do that \u2026 we\u2019re afraid of what might happen."},"content":{"rendered":"

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ARVIN M. \u00a0| \u00a0COACH<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s critical for young people to speak
to each other.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Meet Arvin M.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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In my basketball training, I think if I have a 30-minute session or an hour session, we will always include some type of social emotional development piece. I\u2019m committed to that. And that\u2019s something that I was already bringing in to my programing. And now it is something that absolutely 100 percent has to be a part of every session with young people \u2014 just giving them a chance to speak to each other, giving them a chance to share with each other.<\/p>\n

\u00a0And it doesn\u2019t always have to be heavy, but it just has to be an opportunity for them to speak, an opportunity for them to share and have a check in of some type. And so I\u2019m already planning on adding that to my training, to all my in-person training \u2014 where we partner up. And we either have a topic of the day or we have a check-in system of some type where each young person has the opportunity to just share how their week was.<\/p>\n

\u00a0We call it bricks and swishes.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u00a0So if you\u2019re a basketball player, we don\u2019t like to shoot bricks, basketball players like swishes. And so we just do a quick little check-in with the young people where, hey, what was a brick this week? You know, what was something that was a struggle or a challenge this week? And again, we don\u2019t have to have an answer for it.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u00a0We just want them to be able to get it off their chest and share it. And then we also want them to be able to share what was a swish this week. What was the shot that you made this week? You know, what was something that you did good or something you did well, what was a success? And so that\u2019s one simple check in that we use \u2014 bricks and swishes. I\u2019m just creating more ways for young people to just talk to each other in a nonjudgmental way and to have some fun and let them share what they\u2019re going through and let them share a little bit.<\/p>\n

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I think sometimes as adults, we’re hesitant to do that\u00a0with young people because we’re afraid of what might happen.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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And I think the things that we’re probably afraid of happening are the things that may need to happen. We’re worried about a kid sharing too much. Well, you know what? If an eight-year-old shares something with you that that they need to get off their chest, I don’t know that it is too much. I think it’s something that if they feel that they need to get it off their chest and I think we need to feel a way to be able to support them in whatever the channels are, whether it’s going to their parent or being a first responder, where we’ve got an automatic report situation, whatever the case may be.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But I think we’ve got to give young people the opportunity to share, to speak.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Expert<\/strong> Story<\/p>\n

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